Remember, the genie from Aladdin said he could do anything, except killing people or forcing them to fall in love with somebody (perhaps, because this is pretty much the same)? But in fact you do not need a genie to make someone fall in love with you – you can do this by yourself. And everything you need is just to stick to the right strategy!
There is nothing supernatural, all the scenarios of falling in love are mostly the same. And there is nothing shameful in reproducing them on purpose if you met the one you want to be with. If you’re the first who fell in love, go ahead and make him/her love you in return by simply showing how wonderful you really are.
These amazing tips will help you to create right conditions for revealing your true charm. They might seem obvious, but this is just how the love works!
1. Ask your special someone out on a date and do your best there.
To set up a date, don’t beat around the bush: be straightforward and take control of the situation. Confidence is very attractive! When inviting, just tell the one you’re attracted to: “Hey, I’m planning to go for that new movie this weekend and I would love it if you’d join me.”
If you don’t know each other very well, choose something that will give you and your date a topic to discuss. But if you know each other well, choose something that will allow them to see you in a new light. Choose date activities that will be kind of thrilling. Watching an action movie or a trip to an amusement park have been shown to increase feeling of attraction between two people.
After all, try to be a great date.
2. Be lovable.
Do not forget to take good care of yourself, because the date’s perception of your appearance does matter. The way you handle and present yourself to the world is something that people see right away. So you’d better put some extra time and energy in improvement of your looks if you intend to attract someone.
3. Get to know the person better and try to share his/her pa$$ions.
If you succeed on your first date and something gets started between you two, try to strengthen the bond with the one you like. Remember, the first step in getting someone to love you is to get to know the person better and allow the person to get to know you! But take note that it’ll take time and energy! You have to ask the right questions and listen well. Ask about what the person wanted to be as a child and what she or he dreams about now – this will tell you about the person’s hopes, plans on future and reveal his or her inner world better than anything else.
After asking about likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies, and goals, show an interest in something the person loves, like music or sport. Moreover, you should learn to appreciate the things that make him or her happy. Talk to your love interest about his or her hobbies: if you don’t know much (or anything) about, ask to tell you more or even teach you how to play the favorite game or musical instrument. This will give you something to bond over and put you on the path towards love.
4. Treat your love interest like a hero.
Make your significant others feel special when they’re around you. Compliment their skills and knowledge. Let them help you with something they know well to give them the opportunity to show their best. Ask for a personal advice to show your beloved one that you respect and trust his/her opinion.
5. Support him/her through tough times.
Offering support is very important, because most of us want to be in relationships to have someone we can always rely on. If you are supportive and caring to your significant other, this will go a long way towards getting the person to fall in love with you.
You should always be there for him/her. Be ready to listen your significant other when he/she needs a talk and take his/her side. If your significant other is struggling with serious problem, help him/her to solve it. You should stand for the one you like as strong as for a best friend.
6. Build trust.
Learn to trust your beloved one and show that you trust him or her with your words and actions. And make sure that you show them you are trustworthy as well.
You can share your secrets with him/her and reveal parts of yourself that no one else sees. And if your significant other tells you a secret, appreciate this and keep the secret.
7. Respect your significant other and show your appreciation.
Always give your beloved one a chance to speak and make sure that you listen. Respect his/her opinion and try not to give him or her a reason to think that you’re unfaithful. Show your beloved one that you appreciate him or her every day and never, ever take the person for granted.
8. Remember that you are two separate people and respect him/her personal time and space.
Many people keep away from getting into serious relationships, because no one wants to feel trapped in them. This is why you shouldn’t penetrate your beloved one’s personal space.
Avoide making him/her feel you trespa$$ his/her independance! Give your significant other the freedom to do the things he or she loves and be respectful of his/her personal space (for example, don’t try to rearrange person’s room or go through his or her things).
Do not strive to invade his/her privacy – some things should stay strictly personal.
Don’t try to make your significant other give up his or her personal time to spend every waking moment with you. And do not forget that you also need time alone! Go out and do things. Do not give up on your hobbies to spend more time with your beloved one. Your self-sufficiency and independence will attract your boyfriend/girlfriend to you again and again.
9. Embrace your partners just the way they are.
Don’t try to get your partner to change for you. Like, don’t force your significant other to change his or her personal style or way of life. You’d better work on accepting the things that annoy you about the chosen one, because you too want him/her to love you as you are!
10. Treat your beloved one the way you want to be treated.
In fact, we all are more likely to fall in love with those, who are kind, loving and caring towards us. So, do not hesitate to be nice, attentive and loving. If you want your other half to treat you well, you should start with treating him/her this way from the very begining of your relationships.