Getting disvirgined should be handled as a big deal. You really don’t want to face regret a few hours, days or years after losing it, which is why it’s best you wait until you are totally ready.
One thing to know is that, having $ex will never change you as a person and several others things about your relationship status will never change after you lose your virg*n*ty.
Holly Riordan of All Women Stalk lists a few things that never changes about you after having $ex for the first time:
Your body: If you haven’t already broken your hymen by playing sports, then your “cherry is going to pop” when you have $ex for the first #time. However, other than that, your #body isn’t going to change at all. Your vagina acts like a rubber band, so it isn’t going to become loose after you have $ex. Your body will #look the same as it always did, so there’s no reason to be afraid of “ruining” it.
Your relationship status: You should never sleep with someone in the hopes that they’ll end up dating you after the fact. Unfortunately, some #men are only interested in $ex. While sleeping with a guy could potentially change your #relationship, it probably won’t. So don’t a$$ume that he’ll suddenly love you if you take your clothes off for him. If he doesn’t like you before you sleep together, he won’t like you after you sleep together.
Your value: You might’ve been taught that pure women are more valuable than $exually active #women. However, losing your virg*n*ty doesn’t make you more or less attractive, and it certainly doesn’t make you more or less valuable. You’re still the same person, so your value hasn’t gone up or down.
The way others view you: You’re not going to be shunned by society after having $ex. You’re not going to become the most popular kid in school after having $ex, either. After all, no one will even know that you’re $exually active unless you or your #partner tells them. That means you’ll be viewed the same way as you always were.
Your feelings: After you have $ex with someone, your feelings for them probably won’t change. If anything, they’ll end up becoming more intense. So if you want to sleep with a #guy in order to get over him, it’s not a great idea. If you liked him before you had $ex, you’ll only end up liking him even more after you have $ex.
Your mor*ls: As long as you’re completely ready (and old enough) to deal with the repercussions of having $ex, you shouldn’t feel bad about losing your virg*n*ty. Being $exually active doesn’t mean that you’re immor*l. Stealing, cheat*ng, and using drugs are all worse crimes. If having mature, protected $ex is the worst thing that you’re doing, you can give yourself a pat on the back.
Your personality: Having $ex might boost your confidence, but it’s not going to change you into an entirely different person. You’re still you. So don’t expect your life to change after sleeping with someone. For the most part, #things will stay exactly the same as they always were.